Pre-Date Phone Conversations

by Allen Thompson

It is usually a mistake to spend a great deal of time talking to a woman on the phone before your actual first date together.

You've got her phone number and you've got a date for next Saturday. You think talking to her on the phone several times (at 2 hours a pop) will make your eventual first date go awesome. After all, you seem to be establishing rapport and getting to know one another better.

Unfortunately, such intense pre-date conversations often increase the awkwardness and tension present on the first date... as conversing face-to-face and talking on the phone are two completely different things.

Keep you pre-date conversations short and sweet and she'll actually become more and more curious about you and eagerly look forward to your evening together.