Why Guys Get Dumped

by Allen Thompson

One of the major reasons men get dumped is they get lazy.

They think the game is over once they've started "seriously" dating a girl, or once they've slept with her, or once they're engaged, or even married.

Absolutely wrong. The game has just begun. And you have no choice but to continue to play, and play well, if you want to keep her as your own.

You must continue to be interesting by thinking of unusual things to do together. You must continue to care about how you look and strive to present yourself as positively as possible. You must continue to compliment her. You must continue to listen to her sometimes "boring" stories... and act like you're on the edge of your seat. And you must continue to be a mystery, a challenge, unpredictable, and exciting!

Heed these words — Get lazy and you'll get dumped... and spend the next 3 or 4 months of your life moping around wondering what happened... and why she's now dating your best friend.

Allen Thompson
djnewslet@sosuave.com
Copyright © 1999

The Most Expensive Restaurant in Town

by Allen Thompson

Be very concerned if the woman you're after suggests the most expensive restaurant in town for your first date together.

Do not agree to such a request (unless you're incredibly rich and she knows it). If you let her "use" you on the first date, you'll probably never be able to recover from it.

Remember, a woman will not fall for a guy she can "use" or manipulate.