The Best Way to Get Girls
You know, it always amazes me the lengths to which most guys will go to figure out how to meet women easier. It seems we're always looking for a quick fix.
Well, I must admit, I'm one of those guys.
After all, who wants to work? I want to take things easy and lead a nice, stress-free life.
But let's face facts: I'd never meet any women sitting in my apartment every day, doing yoga, and playing with my cats.
So how can we meet women without having to go out every single night to pick them up?
Well, allow me to share my solution with you...
A little secret you may not be aware of is that guys tend to meet most women from their social circle.
For example, let's say you have a friend that has a sister. One day, you go over to the friend's place, and his sister is there with a few of her friends. You're introduced to everybody, hit it off with one of the sister's friends, and before you know it you got a date.
How did that work?
Friend --> Sister --> Sister's Friend.
You met that girl you dated through people you already knew! And this is the easiest way to meet people there is, because if you're friends with people they know, you must be a cool guy, right?
When you go out to meet women in a bar or a club (or even to women on the street for that matter), you're doing "cold approaches."
In other words, you're trying to meet women you have no prior social relationship with. This is why meeting women in these environments is so hard, because the women have to go through the process of determining if you're a creep or not, if you're cool or not, if you're someone they might like, etc.
But when you meet someone through your social circle, it's a more natural interaction, and most of the screening has already taken place due to the fact that you have mutual friends who vouch for you.
The more friends you have, the more inroads you have into meeting women. So if you can continually expand your social circle, you'll always be meeting women.
It's important to note that you should try to include many "female friends" in your social circle. Girls you have simply as "friends," no more, no less.
Why?
Because women have more female friends than most men. And if you are in their "friends" zone, they will want to hook you up with their girlfriends.
Don't ask me why, they just do for some reason. =)
But in order to get the most use out of your social circle, you have to have an active social life. And the best way to do that is to GO OUT AND MEET PEOPLE!
To your success,
Joseph Matthews
