posted 05-13-2002 08:02 AM            

In an LTR, a DJ has to determine if the chick he's considering marrying and becoming the mother of his kids is not only a hot babe physically, but also an intelligent woman who can stimulate him intellectually.

If the DJ has a bachelor's degree, can he marry a high school graduate who's only interested in eating bonbons and watching Oprah Winfrey and the Young and the Restless? Rest assured that the sex may be great and she still has a high Interest Level in the DJ, but the sex will level off and then what's there to keep the relationship/marriage going for decades?

It's stimulating conversations that will keep the embers of an LTR burning strongly. Being able to converse with your wife who went to university, earned her degree and kept herself up-to-date with current events and has made educating herself a lifetime affair will energize your LTR and keep you intellectually challenged.

posted 05-13-2002 05:17 PM            

It was these very issues. Conversations I found interesting bored her. She had the bad habit of being very crass and vulgar. I am the educated one and working on my masters and all I heard from her was *****ing about her life and how she hadn't done anything.

posted 05-13-2002 05:47 PM            

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Originally posted by Take No Dirt:
Being able to converse with your wife who went to university, earned her degree and kept herself up-to-date with current events and has made educating herself a lifetime affair will energize your LTR and keep you intellectually challenged.

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There are a lot bright women out there who don't have degrees and will not get them. Intellectual curiousity is necessary in a potential mate (from my perspective).

posted 05-14-2002 08:57 PM            

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Originally posted by DJ de Florida:
There are a lot bright women out there who don't have degrees and will not get them. Intellectual curiousity is necessary in a potential mate (from my perspective).

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The very first step to becoming what you want to be is to accept all responsibility for the situation you are in.
in short: quit whining!!!!!!!!!

Why should I care about her, because she looks good? She has given me no reason to care yet.

posted 05-15-2002 04:03 AM            

when u are talking about LTR, physical attraction will play a relatively low role. the more important things will come in like personality, character and the value u feel of yourself when u are with him/her.

and many times i have heard gal friends told me they are attracted to the guy they are with in an LTR due to a unexplicable reason.

i have figured that out to be how the guy make the gal feel about herself when she is with the guy.

gals, especially asian, would like a guy who can dominate her and make her submit willlingly. she has to FEEL that the guy is superior from the bottom of her heart.

gals no matter how old they are will also like to feel like a little gal being doted on by their loved one.

posted 05-15-2002 08:31 AM            

To me, wit and intelligence are more important than physical appearances, and all things being equal I'd rather have a brilliant 6-7 than a 10 who was a little dull-witted.

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posted 08-08-2002 12:33 AM            

I'm just pissed because I'm going out with this beautiful girl that ain't where I'm at mentally. I don't find too much conversation with her, she's more the housewife type.

But strangely I think I'm satisfied with that, as opposed to you fellas. There IS the potential for growth throughout the years you know, intellectually. I could be satisfied w/ simplicity.

Everything is perfect except for her intellect, she doesn't do anything stupid, but she isn't exactly up to talking about God or the complex issues of our world today, but then again, I don't know many people who are!

I'm just afraid if I leave this suitable mate, I won't find a better one. A good woman is REALLY hard to find these days. One that won't **** other guys, or spend all your money or divorce you; take your house and run off w/ the real estate agent as happened to my boss. I may have a LTR in the works here.

posted 08-08-2002 02:02 AM            

I basically date only women who have Masters Degrees and, to be honest, they are no different than any other girl. While they may be smart in their particular chosen field, that doesn't mean they will be relationship smart etc.