posted 05-06-2002 11:29 PM            

No pick-up line, no question, no name introduction. Just say something. Here are some examples:

1) You and her are waiting at the check-out desk at your college library. You see her with a stack of psychology books. You simply say "I read those last week. They were so enjoyable I was going to read them again" with a confident smile and sarcastic voice.

Gauge her response and go with it.

2) You are walking in the courtyard near your work and see a woman eating a sandwich. You walk by her and say "chicken, beef, or hummus" with a friendly voice and smile.

Gauge her response and go with it.

3) You in the mall and see her by herself in the sporting goods store holding a tennis raquet. You walk by her and say "Remember to give me lessons after winning your first Wimbledon" with a smile.

Gauge her response and go with it.

You just have to say something relating to the situation at hand. Look in her eyes with a smile and say it like you already know her.

posted 05-07-2002 11:43 AM            

I started out with just the typical hey's and hi's, but the more I did this, it eventually helped me become more creative with intros and approaches. You can even use a few canned ones, that you create and have high results with, if the situation prevails.

Eg.. I was at I concert type event over the weekend and one that I used a couple of times was, when I was standing around with my boys just BS, I would take notice to any girl only small groups talking like they were having a blast, lots of gesture, smiles etc..., then walk up to them and say something like your convo looks like it's a lot of fun, then when you learn what their talking about make a comment about how it really wasn't that fun after all and start to act like your going to walk away. That worked like gold 3 out of the 4 times I used it.

posted 05-07-2002 12:38 PM            

I recently met a guy in a club here in London and learnt what i consider to be the THE BEST way to do a "cold approach".

I've tried it myself and I gotta say it is so simple but works so perfectly.

just walk up extend your hand to shake and say "hi im....." they will ALWAYS shake your hand back and say their name so as not to seem rude. then you just take it from there and talk about whats going on around you.

posted 06-09-2002 10:31 PM            

Hey DJ! You gonna buy that?! Cash in on your talents by writing a book about your techniques- that's unconstitutional!!!!
You should share your knowledge for free for all of us hapless guys who are desperate for advice on their love lives!!

posted 06-13-2002 11:45 PM            

How come ive tried it, and it didnt work? perhaps its the girls im trying it on, if any of you are familiar with anime Fangirls then you might know how hard it is to come up with a good long lasting conversation at a convention, yes I am an Otaku for those who know what that is...

I suggest any DJ to go to one, its a blast.. 3 days of some of the hottest ladies you've ever laid eyes on, and no competition accept for a few men dressed as characters from series.

Anyhew, Yes... over the weekend that I went to one I did come up with some rather amuseing for fun pick up lines that were made for a good slap in the face, BUT the mere Hello's, and even Talking about anything did not work, not only did I not get laid that weekend.. (and between you and I this is a something, I have a fanclub of women so its not looks) in fact the conversations I had only lasted 2-3 retorts and we went our merry old ways, the most that happened was that I got to walk a hot asian chick around on a leash for a while, but that doesnt count for much.

There is another local con comming up.... question is, will I have mastered my skills by then or be a weak whatever ya callem?, and what is Kino... while im at it, what is that term you call losers who cannot score a chick useing DJ means or whatever?

Ive been frequenting this site for 2 years now and still dont know everything I need to know, but ive gotten pretty far useing the techniques.

Anyways ill leave it at that.

posted 06-14-2002 11:26 PM            

However, for the life of me I can't seem to find a witty anything comment to make in bars and dance clubs. I can't seem to find anything unique about the situation other than them either standing there talking to a friend, standing or sitting there not talking, or walking by me doing nothing out of the ordinary. In a public place I can usually always find something unique to talk about, but not here where my potential success rate is best because the women are actually LOOKING to get hit on. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.

posted 12-06-2002 07:02 PM            

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