posted 02-03-2002 11:45 PM            

If you truly wish to succeed with women, you can�t rely on what you already know. Because in reality, you know little or nothing that is of any use. You must throw away the past, even if you enjoyed marginal success. You may not realize it, but such success was accidental. Put simply, you got lucky. However, succeeding with women has nothing to do with luck, but everything to do with skill.

But how do you become skilled enough to succeed? Success doesn�t come from simply studying the theoretical principles of being a DJ. If doing so was enough, everyone who reads this site would never need to come back. But you�re back again and again, still unable to achieve success with women. What you need to understand is that all of the DJ philosophies in the world will be useless unless you prepare yourself both physically and mentally to be able to put them into practice. Put another way, you need to maximize your physical appearance and become educated about things in which beautiful women would be interested.

Take a look at yourself in the mirror. Take a good long look. Look closely at your body. If you were a beautiful woman, would you sleep with the guy in the mirror? Chances are the answer is no. Likewise, think about what you know, namely, do you have a command of current events, modern and classical literature, or anything that would be of interest to a beautiful woman. If you were a beautiful woman, would you want to have a long talk with you over a candlelight dinner or before a roaring fireplace? Chances are again the answer is no.

You cannot become that which you desire unless you are willing to pay the price to set yourself up for success. How much are you willing to pay?

posted 02-04-2002 10:27 AM               

Thanks again for the great tip!

I hope your DJing is going well.

posted 02-04-2002 10:41 AM            

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Originally posted by Sting:

..........and each time question your abilities or even your self-worth as a person?

If you were a beautiful woman, would you sleep with the guy in the mirror?

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It's not healthy to look upon everything as life or death. Most things you encounter in life (including women) are NOT a life or death struggle. We do ourselves a lot of damage by doing so.

It's important to realize that most things have a learning curve and a set of averages. I always keep in mind that I'll probably have to go through dozens of women to find the one I want. It really takes the load off a guy's mind.

BTW, I also use the question highlighted above on my (AFC) friends;

"Would YOU like to have sex with yourself?"

People forget that it's not a matter of what you expect to get but what you have to OFFER!

posted 02-06-2002 07:49 PM               

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"I MAKE NO EXCUSES FOR MY DESIRES AS A MAN.
I MAKE NO EXCUSES FOR MYSELF.
I MOVE THROUGH THE WORLD WITHOUT APOLOGY."

"IF you think you can, you can. If you think you can't, you can't. Either way your right."

posted 02-12-2002 08:15 AM               

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Originally posted by Sting:
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posted 02-13-2002 11:44 PM            

To clarify the sentence you quoted, I am not telling men to learn about things that will impress a beautiful woman. To the contrary, as with anything else, a man should learn about those things in which HE is interested. Most men don't know what beautiful women are interested in, and consequently, don't know if they would be interested in the same thing.

As with anything, if a man is passionately knowledgeable about a subject -- not simply to impress women -- but rather is truly interested in a particular subject (e.g., classical literature, history, philosphy) beautiful women will want to be around him, converse with him, and most importantly, LEARN MORE ABOUT HIM.

As has been said before:

Build it, and SHE will come.... (preferrably again, and again, and again)