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Topic: Signs of Attraction
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Don Juan
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posted 11-09-2001 10:15 AM
  
Here are signs which girls might give you if they're attracted to ya:1) Smile a lot at ya 2) Laugh at all your jokes, even if they're not funny 3) Make lots of eye contact 4) Pupils dilate when looking at you (they dilate naturally though when you drunk or are in dark light) 5) Touch you - like holding your hand or hugging you etc. 6) Brush hair often when chatting to you (could be ambiguous coz they may just be oing it naturally, on the other hand, they could be flustered and nervous) 7) Arms aren't crossed when talking to you 8) Seems jealous when you flirt with other girls 9) Asks your friends about you 10) Tries to make friends with your friends 11) Phones you up and generally wants to be with you
Anyone able to think of more signs? Please post here!
-Makaveli da Don IP: 131.111.99.156 |
Don Juan
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posted 11-09-2001 03:49 PM
guysI've noticed when i'm at the bar, every girl i talk to has dilated pupils. I know i'm good looking, however i realize that every girl isn't going to be interested in me! Can you experts fill me in? IP: 132.235.176.179 |
Master Don Juan
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posted 11-09-2001 03:58 PM
Bars are a dark place and most eyes are dilated. It may be hard to recognize the affects of the dark from the affects of interest.CobraGT IP: 162.114.211.139 |
Don Juan
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posted 11-09-2001 04:15 PM
CobraGT is right. Also, alcohol will also cause the pupils to dilate. What matters most is whether they dilate more than they are normally. Try to judge her normal dilation when she's talking to a friend, ordering a drink, or looking away for a while. DR IP: 128.42.10.207 |
Master Don Juan
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posted 11-10-2001 05:15 AM
Not completely true here,Makaveli.Some women may be showing you all these signs of attractions in a way to lead you on. So your signs are not realible.!  Have a nice day! IP: 161.142.4.9 |
Don Juan
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posted 11-10-2001 05:23 AM
Ok, so it might be true that they may be leading you on with those signs too, but some of them are given out by girls who find you attractive. You've just got to learn to differentiate between the girls who are leading you on and the sincere ones.They are reliable  IP: 131.111.99.143 |
Master Don Juan
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posted 11-10-2001 06:40 AM
Not really realible yet.!You did not mention how to differentiate between interested women and women that lead men on Clarify here on how to differentiate between interested women and women that lead men on
IP: 161.142.100.85 |
Don Juan
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posted 11-10-2001 08:50 AM
I honestly don't think it's possible to find out if they're leading you on or not, unless you ask for their number, they give it, then they go out on a date with you. If they do that, it shows they're interested in you.IP: 131.111.99.151 |
Master Don Juan
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posted 11-11-2001 04:42 AM
I don't think that's a good answer , Makaveli.There are many professional daters outside and you cannot expect them to be that innocent.! Your signs of attraction list is GOOD!,but it is not good enough to weed out those that are not interested in us.! IP: 161.142.4.9 |
Master Don Juan
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posted 11-11-2001 10:11 PM
Nice list... if only some of those things would happen.IP: 64.157.178.90 |
Master Don Juan
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posted 01-10-2002 12:38 AM
If only the moderator could moderate his own insecurity. Great post. IP: 24.200.138.90 |
Master Don Juan
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posted 01-10-2002 12:45 AM
If a girl has sex with you, this is a signal that she may, possibly, maybe, perhaps be interested in you.IP: 64.12.101.152 |
Master Don Juan
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posted 01-10-2002 02:18 AM
dilated pupils--sign of attraction or heavy LSD use?IP: 216.144.168.189 |
Don Juan
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posted 01-10-2002 03:51 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova:
If a girl has sex with you, this is a signal that she may, possibly, maybe, perhaps be interested in you.
ROFL IP: 12.248.205.93 |
Master Don Juan
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posted 01-10-2002 04:41 AM
Or maybe it is heavy LSD use and she hallucinated you into Brad Pitt. That would explain the sex.IP: 216.144.168.189 |
Master Don Juan
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posted 01-11-2002 05:59 PM
It shouldn't be that difficult to differentiate between girls who are really interested and those who are trying to lead you on.First, if a girl has sex with you, it doesn't necessarily mean she's interested... she could be using you for sex! (really, there are sluts out there like that!) Now, I'd expect that if a girl is leading you on, she probably doesn't give a #$@% about her behavior around you. Therefore, watch out for girls who are totally at ease and not at all nervous! Why? Because, if a girl is nervous, you give her that thrill that she had better be her best around you or you'll totally diss her! There are also differences in flirting between player girls and genuinely interested girls. Player girls tend to flirt more, especially more in public. Interested girls try to get your attention more in private or clandestinely. It's that feeling that she's trying to share a little something with you and you only. Strictly Confidential, in other words.  BGMan IP: 129.101.5.101 |
Master Don Juan
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posted 01-11-2002 06:14 PM
quote:
Originally posted by BGMan:
First, if a girl has sex with you, it doesn't necessarily mean she's interested... she could be using you for sex! (really, there are sluts out there like that!)
I know. I was alluding to that when I wrote the whole "may, possibly, maybe, perhaps" thing. ------------------
CASANOVA "Always love thy enemies, just in case all your friends turn out to be a bunch of bastards." "Whenever evil befalls us, we ought to ask ourselves, after the first suffering, how we can turn it into good. So shall we take occasion, from one bitter root, to raise perhaps many flowers."
Leigh Hunt "Before we set our hearts too much upon anything, let us examine how happy those are who already possess it."
Francois de La Rochefoucauld IP: 205.188.199.159 |
Master Don Juan
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posted 01-12-2002 04:47 PM
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Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova:
I know. I was alluding to that when I wrote the whole "may, possibly, maybe, perhaps" thing.
I noticed that. That was for other dudes. BGMan IP: 129.101.6.82 |
Master Don Juan
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posted 01-12-2002 04:56 PM
quote:
Originally posted by BGMan:
It shouldn't be that difficult to differentiate between girls who are really interested and those who are trying to lead you on.First, if a girl has sex with you, it doesn't necessarily mean she's interested... she could be using you for sex! (really, there are sluts out there like that!) Now, I'd expect that if a girl is leading you on, she probably doesn't give a #$@% about her behavior around you. Therefore, watch out for girls who are totally at ease and not at all nervous! Why? Because, if a girl is nervous, you give her that thrill that she had better be her best around you or you'll totally diss her! There are also differences in flirting between player girls and genuinely interested girls. Player girls tend to flirt more, especially more in public. Interested girls try to get your attention more in private or clandestinely. It's that feeling that she's trying to share a little something with you and you only. Strictly Confidential, in other words. BGMan
Just gona post that! lol, great ideas man! ------------------
Don Juan
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Master Don Juan
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posted 04-03-2002 02:36 PM
I realize this post is old. But, something about the whole pupils dilating thing. I think that we all recognize this subconciously. I could always tell by the 'way' a girl looked at me if she liked me. Reading about the pupils dilating just sorta clarified it for me. So I wouldn't concentrate too much on pupil size, more on the general way she is lookin at ya. Sorry if this is too vague. IP: 216.54.14.246 |
Master Don Juan
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posted 04-03-2002 08:40 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova:
I know. I was alluding to that when I wrote the whole "may, possibly, maybe, perhaps" thing.
But at this point, who really cares if she likes you or not? Fvck her (literally and figuratively). So then, is there no absolute way to know if a girl really likes you for sure, positively, 100%? ------------------
"There are no such things as mixed signals when it comes to women, there is reality and what the guy wants to be reality." - Don Phenom Who wants to be a DJ when you can be so much more? IP: 130.215.226.1 |
Don Juan
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posted 04-09-2002 12:07 AM
yea sometime they do all that he listed above. But in my experiences girls freakin never smile at me, only the sunshine chicks. I mean im freakin serious, they just give me the i love you look. Its very confusing to me, i know this because i see certain girls staring at me,they do do some of the things mostly with there hair, eye contact . I wish some girl actually did all the things that the brother mentioned above. But then i guess it would be too easy.CFH
" Death Rattle Shakes. I see the End and There is No Light" Pantera IP: 64.24.180.198 |
Master Don Juan
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posted 04-10-2002 11:14 AM
the pupil dilating is a proven fact?IP: 134.241.46.167 |
Master Don Juan
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posted 04-10-2002 12:20 PM
Always assume she is attracted of you. Quit analyzing.------------------
/Turbobird IP: 213.67.36.160 |
Don Juan
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posted 04-10-2002 12:23 PM
Pupil dilating is just one clue. I have to have several other signs to know for sure if they are interested. Like showing of wrists, stroking hair, listening intently, asking questions... etc.
One thing on Pupils dilating, when talking... if you see them all of a sudden get smaller. You are probably saying something that they don't like. If you see them get bigger, you are on the right path. I try to use it to help calibrate the way I talk to them. Coolbreeze43 IP: 206.175.178.210 |
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