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Shiftkey

Master Don Juan
posted 09-23-2001 01:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Shiftkey     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Before you go out on a date with a girl, eat at home by yourself first. When you go out you'll be full, so you won't have to order too much food (maybe just a salad). Because she doesn't want to be seen as a pig, the girl will never order more food than you do.

I learned this tip from a friend of mine at work while we were talking about girls. He said he heard it on a radio talk show from a guy who has a lot of success with women. I haven't tryed this theory out first hand, but it seems pretty good.

Tell me what you guys think.

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Mastermind

Master Don Juan
posted 09-23-2001 07:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mastermind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Doesn't sound bad...

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ESPN

Master Don Juan
posted 09-25-2001 04:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ESPN     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Very simple

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Don the Legend

Master Don Juan
posted 09-25-2001 05:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Don the Legend     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Good Tip Shiftkey!

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Gaming111

Master Don Juan
posted 09-25-2001 08:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gaming111     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Be a little careful of this... If she is hungry, she will get irritable, which = bad. Keep this in mind.

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DJ de Florida

Master Don Juan
posted 09-26-2001 12:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DJ de Florida     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I read an article in some Men's Health magazine that quoted a study. Researchers had females analyze eating diaries of different men. Those men who ate more were perceived as being more masculine.

I am a big eater. Women have commented on this. They love to watch me eat and feed me.

If you order a salad, she may perceive you as being cheap. This may turn her off. I think your idea could backfire in many situations. Be careful.....

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meatloaf

Don Juan
posted 09-26-2001 01:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for meatloaf     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
true dat DJ florida. I've heard from girls that guys who eat less than they do are turnoffs. So try to eat masculliny with good sized bites (doesnt mean to stuff your mouth full).

I guess to save money try to order something that is more for less.ex. big plate of fettecini alfredo vs grilled chicken brest in lemon thyme sauce with savory grilled veggies)

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WillieSacks

Master Don Juan
posted 09-26-2001 11:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for WillieSacks     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by meatloaf:
true dat DJ florida. I've heard from girls that guys who eat less than they do are turnoffs. So try to eat masculliny with good sized bites (doesnt mean to stuff your mouth full).

I guess to save money try to order something that is more for less.ex. big plate of fettecini alfredo vs grilled chicken brest in lemon thyme sauce with savory grilled veggies)


Or how 'bout an Extra Value Meal SUPERSIZED with a large water cup which is free(but you fill it up with soda and pay nothing)THAT WAY EVERYBODY SAVES MONEY

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improvinmygame

Don Juan
posted 09-30-2001 11:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for improvinmygame     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The radio guy was the legendary Tom Leykes out of Los Angeles who preaches what is known as Leykes 101. You can check out his website at: http://www.blowmeuptom.com

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Shiftkey

Master Don Juan
posted 10-01-2001 12:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Shiftkey     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yeah that's who it was. Thanks improvinmygame

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darkhorse

Master Don Juan
posted 10-01-2001 01:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for darkhorse     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Or how 'bout an Extra Value Meal SUPERSIZED with a large water cup which is
free(but you fill it up with soda and pay nothing)THAT WAY EVERYBODY SAVES MONEY

LOL...well, McDonalds doesn't save.

Hey, don't forget to go to a place that has a COUPON for it's salads. Try to date young looking chicks too so she can order off of the kid's menu where things are cheaper.

Seriously, if you guys are still in high school/college I can see where you're coming from. I'd tend to lean more towards the cheap but funky and cool place in that situation rather than an expensive place where you only order a salad. If you don't live near a city, though, cheap/funky/cool places might be in short supply...

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diplomatic_lies

Master Don Juan
posted 09-03-2002 09:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for diplomatic_lies     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Firstly, buy stuff from Ebay. Thats probably the most money-saving experience I've ever undergone. If its something you don't need, sell it on Ebay again. I once got $10 extra (brought CD for $40 and sold a year later for $50).


Thn you can have plenty of money left over for dates

Also, I find that these cosy little restaurants run by people of foreign cultures often provides really good and exotic food at low prices. Firstly, some are very poor immigrants who don't charge much. Secondly, their food is often very exotic, which means quality is percieved as high (by you and the date). I've been to restaurants where they sell food for like $7 a plate (Australia, not US).

Also, it gives you a broader taste - which also is a good sign for your partner!

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afterbuzz

Don Juan
posted 09-04-2002 04:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for afterbuzz     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
haha thats some sheisty sheeyaht, shiftkey. But if you want a cheap date, why not do something fun instead of going to a restaurant and not eating? Florida has a good point too. Real men don't eat (just) salads.

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Shiftkey

Master Don Juan
posted 09-06-2002 02:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Shiftkey     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by afterbuzz:
haha thats some sheisty sheeyaht, shiftkey. But if you want a cheap date, why not do something fun instead of going to a restaurant and not eating? Florida has a good point too. Real men don't eat (just) salads.

Maybe you could buy a side of fries instead of a salad then?

lol damn this is a year old post haha

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Shadow Dancer

Don Juan
posted 09-09-2002 04:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Shadow Dancer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
If you want to save money, stop being a p*ssy and tell her that she needs to bring some money. Tell her beforehand that you expect the girl to pay for herself.

If you don't feel like spending money on a girl, DON'T! Don't try to impress her. Would you pay for your friend? Most likely no. Sometimes you might, if you were in the mood or if you were spotting him some cash, so why act differently with a girl?

I've taken a girl to a resturaunt and we pigged out. Then when the check came I put in the money for my amount and told her we needed "xx" amount for her half. She was like "WHAT?! Are you kidding me?!". I said no, I wasn't kidding. She got pissed but paid for her meal. She was pissed the whole ride home saying that I didn't treat her like the princess she was(her exact words). Said that she felt I didn't care about her at all. Then I sternly told her, "Look, if I didn't care about being here with you, I wouldn't have drove 45 mins to get here in the first place. In the second place I wouldn't have spent all day with you. I could have been somewhere else but I CHOSE to be here with YOU. I've been driving us around all day. We were getting along great till now. If you really feel that it's me spending money on you that counts then it's obvious to me that this isn't gonna work. I've shown you that I care about being here with you in ways that REALLY count. You don't see that though. It was nice, for the most part, meeting you. Goodbye.". Then I dropped her off and went home.

Know what? This "princess" called and apologized. Said she thought about what I said. That it really isn't spending money on her that shows I care. She knows it from the other ways I showed. She was sorry and hoped we could see each other again.


So there you go. Who says you HAVE to spend money on the girl?! Would you really expect her to spend money on you? No, that would be absurd. And it's the same when a girl expects a guy to just pay for her based on the fact that she has a vagina and he has a penis. Don't be scared of the girl rejecting you. Do what YOU want. Not what you think the girl expects you to.


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It is hard to dance with the Devil on your back.
They buried my body and thought I'd gone,
But I am the dance and I still go on.

[This message has been edited by Shadow Dancer (edited 09-09-2002).]

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BrownDJ

Don Juan
posted 09-13-2002 12:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for BrownDJ     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
"And it's the same when a girl expects a guy to just pay for her based on the fact that she has a vagina and he has a penis."

LOL Shadow Dancer!!! I second all that you said! When I've been on dates and the girl was really interested she's ALLWAYS offered to pay her half.

Why would you want to eat at home!??!??! Isn't that ruining the whole point of eating food outside? If you don't want to spend money at a restaurant DONT GO TO ONE. GO walk in the park.

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