posted 08-14-2001 05:50 AM            

I've told you about looks and attitude, now you need to know the "How" stuff....

It's easy, really. In fact, it's so simple that it's almost ridiculous.

The answer is in the way you use YOUR EYES!!

Yup, that's it.....you have to use your eyes....

Unless you're blind, you use your eyes to communicate with women more than your mouth.

Ever see any of the old "Dracula" movies? How did he "freeze" his soon-to-be victims? He used a hypnotic stare.

I'm not suggesting that you try a "Dracula" approach.....or that you just stare at a woman like you're the village idiot....

Eye contact can be very intimidating......Police are trained to use it to guage reactions to questions, etc.,....

Direct eye contact with a woman, combined with a nice smile tells a woman "I like what I'm seeing, I am interested in you".....

The reason most guys don't use it is because of fear and shyness. When you look at a woman you don't know and hold eye contact just a little longer than normal it let's the cat out of the bag, so to speak.....

You must do it and not come across as a perverted moron......alot of it is timing....it always worked best for me when I was in "motion"....walking, turning my head directly towards them and smiling....

I'm a married guy.....I don't do this stuff anymore (well, almost never) because it works so well that I don't want the temptation, it's that effective...

Does it work on all women, everywhere, all the time? Of course not. But the ones who look back, taking notice of your eyes and smile, are attracted almost instantly.

Why? Because it's flattering and mesmerizing, that's why! What if some nice looking babe does it to you? You're hooked!

Eye contact with a good smile indicates confidence and self-assurance. Shy people can't do this, their eyes dart around everywhere.

Remember.....use your eyes and smile, it's your God-given weapon......if they look back, and hold it for just a teeny-tiny second too long, you've attracted them!

Next I'll talk about approaching......