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Topic: Never Ask To Become Exclusive
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Master Don Juan
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posted 07-29-2000 07:08 PM
  
Becoming exclusive with a woman means the both of you talk about not dating or seeing anyone else. The dating with others comes to an end.Never ask a women to become exclusive. She must ask YOU. She must talk about it FIRST.
Why? If a woman hasn't asked you yet it means she is still open to seeing others. She still has DOUBTS about you. Highly interested women don't want you going out with other women. A woman asking for exclusivity is like a 'marriage proposal'. She is cementing and laying the foundation for true intimacy.
She wants something that's lasting. It is the ULTIMATE test of interest, guys. She is 'proposing'. If you ask first, you will never know her true interest level. Why didn't she bring it up? How come she is still letting you see others? Why isn't she CLOSING her options? Is she seeing someone else? Think about it. AD IP: 209.240.200.104 |
Master Don Juan
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posted 07-29-2000 08:06 PM
Oh dear!
What did I go and do the other day?Not to worry! She did tell me that I am her "one and only" though! Actually, she told me that there is nobody else that she "feels this way about".
-Awww sweet!  I suggested it and she agreed! ------------------
*Hidden-Danjer* -Top english geezer And you better believe it matey! :) IP: 212.140.45.164 |
Master Don Juan
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posted 07-29-2000 09:06 PM
Hidden-Danjer,Did she say "I was wondering about that too?". Or "I'm glad you brought this up"? I used to mention it first myself. One girl said that she wanted to know about that. Did she act RELIEVED? Did she act like you defused a bomb? A woman can like a guy a rather small amount and agree. Relationships are built on action, not words. SHE HAS TO ASK, Matey. Then you know for sure. Good luck next time. Just keep it in the back of your mind. AD
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Master Don Juan
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posted 07-29-2000 10:46 PM
Not relievedas such.I think she was more concerned about re-assuring me that there is nobody else for her. Oh well, if she goes, she goes. I like this one too, but you can't afford to get obsessed unless she is first. :o) hmm two people obsessed with each other?
Is THAT what they call love? :o)
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*Hidden-Danjer* -Top english geezer And you better believe it matey! :) IP: 212.140.45.164 |
Master Don Juan
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posted 07-29-2000 11:04 PM
Hidden-Danjer,I wish you all the happiness in the world with her. Enjoy life and have fun.
I enjoyed talking to you tonight. Give her a big kiss when you see her. Talk to you later. AD IP: 209.240.216.117 |
Master Don Juan
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posted 07-13-2001 11:28 PM
bumpIP: 65.224.230.231 |
Don Juan
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posted 07-26-2001 02:53 AM
Rule #2 Men start the dating process. Women start the relationship. Women are the competive sex,use it against them. IP: 65.29.64.76 |
Don Juan
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posted 03-13-2002 08:55 PM
Yeah well dont worry we all blow it from time to time.. I asked first and since then she was always bringing up some other guy or friend. we are broken up. but friends.IP: 66.141.98.253 |
Master Don Juan
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posted 03-29-2002 11:48 PM
BUMPIP: 12.224.220.198 |
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