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Topic: Make it Automatic
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Master Don Juan
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posted 07-13-2001 02:56 PM
  
I recently returned to these boards after a six month hiatus. I've noticed a lot of posts from guys that are wondering if the girl likes them and what they should do next. "Should I go for it?"This is NOT a legitimate question for a DJer. The answer is always YES. If you don't go for the phone number close, then you're still a rank amateur. MAKE IT AUTOMATIC. Everytime you meet a little hottie. Make nice, make your move, go for the phone number. Every time. If you don't, then you blew it. You should ask for her number the FIRST time you meet her. Then you don't have to waste time wondering if you "should go for it." MAKE IT AUTOMATIC. Every time. Get the phone number. ------------------
In the time of chimpanzees I was a monkey. IP: 208.45.84.177 |
Don Juan
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posted 07-14-2001 05:29 AM
I dont understand! When I get the phone number only.....the interest is way less than if I confidently give them my number first.It is unique....they dont expect it.Therefore it demonstrates that you are UNIQUE and INTERESTING.
IT RADIATES CONFIDENCE.IT makes them come to you and shows them that you are not desparate
because it leaves it up to her.She thinks...hey he has Nads..IP: 216.130.76.108 |
Master Don Juan
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posted 07-14-2001 08:02 PM
Two thumbs up for gekkoca ! ! !IP: 209.79.223.146 |
Master Don Juan
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posted 07-15-2001 11:43 PM
I dont agree with gekkoca.
Giving your number out being a sign of confidence...its actually a sign of weakness and fear.
The reason being that instead of playing the game you quickly put the ball in her court and wait for the next move....its a quick way out, its minimalist and 90% of the time you'll come across as arrogant (and they wont call).
It takes balls to ask for a woman's home number.------------------
If you believe in your lie, it becomes the truth. IP: 203.110.135.193 |
Don Juan
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posted 07-16-2001 03:03 AM
IT doesnt take balls to ask a woman for her number!Guys do it ALL the time.I work with a lot of them!In the last week I gave my number to 4 women....guess what..they all called me...I guess it doesnt work eh!Dont knock it till YOU TRY IT!P.s,,,I gave the girls my number...two of the 4 even recipicated by writing down theirs!I never called them first!...I am no stud eitherIP: 216.130.76.108 |
Master Don Juan
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posted 07-16-2001 02:10 PM
Dammit, how many times do we have to go over this?You want to avoid giving a woman your number for as long as possible. You are the pursuer. You never want to be waiting for a call. You want to make it so she cannot call you to cancel a date. Getting her HOME PHONE NUMBER is an excellent test of preliminary interest. Now don't run around giving out your number. That's for the girls. It doesn't show that you are confident. It shows that you are weak and desperate "Here's my number. Please call me." Lame. You want to remain mysterious. ------------------
In the time of chimpanzees I was a monkey. IP: 208.45.84.177 |
Don Juan
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posted 07-16-2001 02:31 PM
AHH hello!
You do not make a date with her!That is DESPARATE!That is saying to her ...hey I ah will call you so that you can make an excuse not to go out.When I give out my number its with no reaction..like I dont care if she calls or not because it will be her loss if she doesnt.I dont wait around!Besides I am so busy that I never call them back right away..ITS NOT ...HERE is my number I am desparate.Its heres my number B@$$% ...call me or its your loss!They get my machine and end up leaving me their phone number as I am a challenge!IP: 216.130.76.108 |
Master Don Juan
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posted 07-16-2001 03:14 PM
"ITS NOT ...HERE is my number I am desparate.Its heres my number B@$$% ...call me or its your loss!"
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Of course, they both sound the same. Either way, you're making her into the pursuer and yourself into the woman. Why do so many guys on this board feel more comfortable when they reverse gender roles?It seems bizarre to me that you want the relationship to start off as a game of phone tag. Why not call her, ask her to meet you, and then continue from there. This game-playing nonsense is not the stuff that the great DJs are made of. IP: 208.45.84.177 |
Don Juan
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posted 07-16-2001 03:49 PM
How to catch a KITTY....
Let them chase you out of curiosity....
Never let them catch you ...
You need to stop thinking its a game.Its not.
Its just what works.If thats a game by your definition...so be it.I am only interested in results.What works for me works for me.Until otherwise proven ineffective!D.J ing
is strategy...to obtain an end result or goal.WE will have to agree to disagree and thats the end of that!  LOL...IP: 216.130.76.108 |
Master Don Juan
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posted 07-16-2001 04:31 PM
I have read some of your other posts and I guess this strategy works for you. I don't like it and I think most others on this board would agree with me.I do not subscribe to your strategy, but if you believe it is working for you, keep on doing it. It may depend on age. Read my thread I'm about to start. ------------------
In the time of chimpanzees I was a monkey. IP: 208.45.84.177 |
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