posted 06-20-2001 06:14 PM               

Good, now that that is out of the way here are some thing things you need to know to ascend to �True Don� status.

You must appeal to her power of seduction. Let her use her sensuality and sexuality to "catch" you. The important thing is that once you know a girl is interested in you, then you can appeal to her power of seduction by playing hard to get. Don't call her every night. Don't make big sexual moves on her at first. You must appear to be interested, yet still holding back a bit - not quite sure if you want the relationship to go further. Make her feel as though she has to work harder to convince you that you do want the relationship to develop.

Remember, don't rush things sexually. Appear as if you are still deciding whether or not you want to be involved. A great way to accomplish this, is to end a date before she does. You've gone to a movie and are now having a bite to eat at a restaurant. Instead of letting the date drag on to that awkward time when she finally says she has to go home, maintain control of the evening. While the conversation is still good, while the date is still going well, announce that it's getting late and it's time to go. Tell her that you enjoyed the evening and that you are looking forward to getting together again Also, if the mood, the time, the place isn't right, or it feels the slightest bit awkward, don't try kissing her for the first time. If she's interested, the time and place will come. But, by pushing it, you risk blowing an important event, you risk coming off as being desperate for action and worst of all, you risk appearing inexperienced and inept. Don't be afraid to wait until the time is right.

Remember the better looking the girl the more you have to this so If the girl is a 10. don't call her more than twice week if you just meet her(1-10 weeks), and even that is pushing it. Always give unique compliment and be cool and you'll be on your way to ascending to 'True Don' status.