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Topic: Ways to make your self more attractive
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Master Don Juan
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posted 06-13-2001 12:57 AM
  
In trying to meet chicks, I have found that a good method is to do stuff that is out of the ordinary. For instance, always have one thing that u do differently than other guys, for me, I love to wear jewelry. Save some cash and spring for like a movado watch. (200-300 bucks) I have had so many girls say that they love that and they realize that you have the means to buy stuff like that, they get interested. They love jewelry and they are constantly asking me if i coudl buy them some, and I love to say, well if u were my girl i would buy u stuff like that...they love it..I have also found that a cool pair of shoes that are shiny looking can really get a girl to notice you, i guess its tha they love shoes so they check ya out when u are wearing yours.....and the best thing i have found is to act as if, just like on the movie boiler room, act as if u have a nine inch co*k, and dont take crap. from them. U get rejected, screw it, just go to the next one. IP: 24.4.252.77 |
Master Don Juan
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posted 06-13-2001 01:18 AM
Funny you mention that.I have a Movado watch and i dress nice. It doesnt make a difference. Ya gotta have luck too you know. IP: 63.26.238.137 |
Master Don Juan
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posted 06-13-2001 03:35 AM
Thats the mentality to have! If they diss you, screw them. Move on to the next lady in line!!!!!!!!IP: 198.81.16.157 |
Don Juan
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posted 06-13-2001 03:41 AM
Clothing is just a species of nonverbal communication. If you want to be able to say the right things with clothing, you've got to learn the language.A good shortcut is to just copy what the guys who get the chicks wear, and then throw something flashy and individual on top of it. In general, attractive clothes are:
-clean
-bright
-multicolored to a point (no use looking like a rare jungle bird)
-up to date (unless it's a costume ball)
-comfortable (if you're not comfortable in the clothes, it'll show)
Boiler Room, by the way, is mandatory viewing for all Don Juans. Also not a bad idea to stock up on salesman books. "Don Juan", after all, is just a cool name for "c*ck salesman".
[This message has been edited by The Writer (edited 06-13-2001).] IP: 24.120.83.239 |
Don Juan
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posted 06-13-2001 04:59 PM
I forget the author, but read this book, "How 10% of the People Get 90% of the Pie"Good read friends, but it shows mainly how to get ahead in the business politics game. I've tried to adapt it to the chick game, with mild success, got to look further. IP: 170.65.51.13 |
Master Don Juan
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posted 06-14-2001 05:50 PM
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Originally posted by quietstorm:
In trying to meet chicks, I have found that a good method is to do stuff that is out of the ordinary. For instance, always have one thing that u do differently than other guys, for me, I love to wear jewelry. Save some cash and spring for like a movado watch. (200-300 bucks) I have had so many girls say that they love that and they realize that you have the means to buy stuff like that, they get interested. They love jewelry and they are constantly asking me if i coudl buy them some, and I love to say, well if u were my girl i would buy u stuff like that...they love it..I have also found that a cool pair of shoes that are shiny looking can really get a girl to notice you, i guess its tha they love shoes so they check ya out when u are wearing yours.....and the best thing i have found is to act as if, just like on the movie boiler room, act as if u have a nine inch co*k, and dont take crap. from them. U get rejected, screw it, just go to the next one.
I goto a school where you have to wear uniforms (like all suited up and stuff... think Britney Spears' first video... except without khaki pants) So like wearing sharp clothes is pretty normal. I don't wear a nice watch (actually, I don't even own one). But I do have a super nice pair of $300 (CDN) italian shoes. Nice and shiney, and I take care of them as if they were a Million dollars (well, actually maybe not, but I don't wear them on the rainy days etc.) But even with the shoes, I haven't noticed a real improvement with interaction with girls. But damn they do make you feel so good because they look so good! Whenever you wear a nice set of clothes, I don't know why, but you feel real good about yourself. It's true guys, today I woke up at like 11 and my sister was watching Jenny Jones (some weird show about problems) and they did makeovers of punk kids... after they got their make over, they looked all sharp and stuff. ie no studs, no jewlery... and they like changed into a different person. Like they looked so much more friendly. And they acted so much more friendly too. Like punk mode went away with the clothes. [This message has been edited by hydroponically inclined (edited 06-14-2001).] IP: 24.112.85.104 |
Master Don Juan
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posted 06-14-2001 08:39 PM
SHyt... I dress nice but my clothes cost 1/10 of what you guys wear. Chicks always give me comments about my syle - which goes without saying: It's also how you wear it.Dress like a spoiled little rich kid and all you'll have are gold digging wenches. Dress like a modern bad boy and you'll get everybody. Hey, I've been told many times that I stand out. Just gotta look cool I say... IP: 146.114.83.5 |
Master Don Juan
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posted 06-15-2001 11:30 AM
Every guy that wants to be a Don Juan must see Boiler Room... perfect example of guys that dont give a **** what anybody thinks of them, confident, want it ALL, and dont take **** from anybody for any reason... IP: 152.163.197.82 |
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posted 06-15-2001 06:56 PM
I heard that chicks don't dig guys with too much jewelleryIP: 202.188.40.25 |
Master Don Juan
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posted 06-16-2001 10:13 PM
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Originally posted by stuartSan:
I heard that chicks don't dig guys with too much jewellery
It's all bling bling man! Just like the flashy modded up car. Whatever though. Chick's who dig jewlery on guys are thugs. IP: 24.112.85.235 |
Master Don Juan
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posted 06-18-2001 03:54 PM
I believe that looking nice is key. By wearing to much jewelery though I can see a problem with gold diggers. My advice, look nice and wear maybe a watch and necklace anything more might attract the wrong attention. (gold diggers) ------------------
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Master Don Juan
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posted 06-24-2001 09:48 PM
What the hell is the modern day bad boy look?I have no fashion sense I don't wear half the colths I buy because I usually get the sales persons opinion and they try to dump thee stupoid **** off on me or so it seems. IP: 24.226.3.9 |
Master Don Juan
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posted 06-24-2001 09:49 PM
What the hell is the modern day bad boy look?I have no fashion sense I don't wear half the colths I buy because I usually get the sales persons opinion and they try to dump thee stupoid **** off on me or so it seems. IP: 24.226.3.9 |
Master Don Juan
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posted 07-13-2001 12:14 AM
YOu wanna know what the bad boys wear?
Its easy - look at the type of girl you want, then look at the type of guy she's with and study how these guys dress, look and act. Even if you're not a bad boy, follow Doc Love's advice and act it....people, women will think you are.
I'm usually considered a 'nice guy' (I hate that term as i'm not), and a girl I liked never gave me the time of day until her sister found out I was dating a married woman (you get it when you can), when she found this out, she was all over me - she started to think I was a bad boy in a nice guy shell. Her comment being "You're not as innocent as you look..".
So really, is it up to what you wear or how you carry yourself? Dont be a sheep in wolf's clothing - become the wolf.IP: 203.110.135.193 |
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posted 07-13-2001 01:18 AM
I'd be careful with this "Dont be a sheep in wolf's clothing - become the wolf."I used to be a badboy. Not to get girls, but that's who I was and who my friends were. Most of my friends in that past badboy era of mine are in prison. I'm glad I changed my ways. The last thing you want to do is do bad things just to get girls. You're life is not worth ruining for that. The bad boys may get girls, but they mostly get scandalous types. Yes don't be the goody nice guy, but just enhance your wolf status with caution and moderation. Doing bad things here and there can become a slippery slope. So be careful. IP: 209.179.148.125 |
Don Juan
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posted 07-23-2001 07:51 PM
Yes that bad boy notion is ridiculous. A man should display himself with class and sophistication, and with any luck, when you dress like a CEO, all that long-in-the-tooth trash won't even have the moxie to try to dig your gold. You'll attract girls proportionate to your image as a guy. By the way Boiler Room is a great ass movie and should be viewed by all.------------------
Once again I place the blame on Don Lucchesi. IP: 64.111.81.141 |
Master Don Juan
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posted 07-23-2001 11:30 PM
Drew...(I'd be careful with this "Dont be a sheep in wolf's clothing - become the wolf.")I didnt mean to say you should literally turn into a criminal. I meant instead of being a ***** trying to look like a man, just learn to be a man. Its all it takes.
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posted 07-24-2001 01:36 AM
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Originally posted by bashful:
Funny you mention that.I have a Movado watch and i dress nice. It doesnt make a difference. Ya gotta have luck too you know.
I heard this in a movie once, and I somewhat agree....
"A real man makes his own luck"
Can anyone tell me what movie that is from?
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Syncmaster signing out.
a.k.a ... Adam IP: 24.42.144.208 |
Don Juan
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posted 07-24-2001 12:16 PM
Adonis SHyt... I dress nice but my clothes cost 1/10 of what you guys wear. Chicks always give me comments about my syle - which goes without saying: It's also how you wear it
----------------Then what kind of clothes DO you wear ADONIS?
(what designers etc) IP: 152.163.201.76 |
Don Juan
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posted 01-18-2002 01:48 AM
I know I felt like a million bucks when I got myself a brand new leather coat and a new watch over the holidays. It just makes you feel superior and in control of things.Clothing and jewlerry can help out, because I think that if you dress nice and believe that you dress nice, that's your confidence right there. IP: 64.230.46.160 |
Master Don Juan
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posted 01-18-2002 03:52 AM
"love to say, well if u were my girl i would buy u stuff like that..."Thats a negative.... try not to put the girl in a position where she feels that you are trying to impress her. Plus you don't want to attract moochers. She should be the one buying YOU things. You are the Mack. IP: 207.172.11.232 |
Master Don Juan
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posted 01-18-2002 03:57 AM
As far as Jewelry goes... A nice watch is a definite plus. But don't over do it. Unless you want to attract the wrong type of company, and also depending on where you are located, some women are turned of by lots of jewerly.Also its a good thing that you mentioned shoes. Women are like eagles when it comes to noticing a guys shoes. Make sure you pay more attention to your shoes, than anything else in your outfit. Since shoes are usually the most expensive item for a male outfit, we tend to wear older worn out shoes/boots, and try to make up for it with our pants, and shirts. Thats a no no. A good away to keep your shoe maintenance up to par, is to to keep seperate shoes for going out, and then keep another pair for work, school etc... [This message has been edited by Jwheatly (edited 01-18-2002).] IP: 207.172.11.232 |
Master Don Juan
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posted 01-18-2002 04:44 PM
I agree with everything so far.. but nobody has really mentioned personal hygiene yet. Check and double-check yourself over before going out.. no wayward facial/nose/ear hair, clean all the crap out of your eyes, keep up on your haircut, no cracked/dry lips, and maybe even get a facial moisturizer. Yeah, its a stupid little stuff, and you wont get any attention for it, but don't take care of this stuff and see how far you get! -Chris [This message has been edited by Powertrip (edited 01-18-2002).] IP: 209.179.134.76 |
Master Don Juan
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posted 01-18-2002 07:08 PM
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Originally posted by hydroponically inclined:
I goto a school where you have to wear uniforms (like all suited up and stuff... think Britney Spears' first video... except without khaki pants) So like wearing sharp clothes is pretty normal. I don't wear a nice watch (actually, I don't even own one). But I do have a super nice pair of $300 (CDN) italian shoes. Nice and shiney, and I take care of them as if they were a Million dollars (well, actually maybe not, but I don't wear them on the rainy days etc.)But even with the shoes, I haven't noticed a real improvement with interaction with girls. But damn they do make you feel so good because they look so good! Whenever you wear a nice set of clothes, I don't know why, but you feel real good about yourself. It's true guys, today I woke up at like 11 and my sister was watching Jenny Jones (some weird show about problems) and they did makeovers of punk kids... after they got their make over, they looked all sharp and stuff. ie no studs, no jewlery... and they like changed into a different person. Like they looked so much more friendly. And they acted so much more friendly too. Like punk mode went away with the clothes. [This message has been edited by hydroponically inclined (edited 06-14-2001).]
i go to a catholic school and we wear uniforms too. if u allready have nice shoes a nice watch and a gold chain with a cross. get loads of compliments. p.s. i also live in canada  IP: 216.66.137.96 |
Don Juan
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posted 01-18-2002 09:06 PM
getting yourself a nice leather jacket would definenlty help. turtle neck sweaters,long sleeve button up plaid shirts. nice stuff  IP: 64.12.101.153 |
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