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Topic: Make Her Feel Special
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Master Don Juan
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posted 11-03-2000 10:56 PM
  
The most important thing you can do to make single women feel romantically
attracted to you is to make her feel special. Women are a lot less
interested in the way you appear to her than in the way to make her feel
about herself. It's very important to make single women feel special and unique. In
return, she will feel that you are also special and unique. So, how do you make a single woman feel special? You tell her by saying
something like this: "There's something very special about you. I noticed
you the second I first saw you. You have a very unique face that's so
exotic I can't explain it. You're more than just attractive. There's
something very unique and original about your look." Just say this to a woman you've just met and watch her reaction. I can
guarantee you her face will light up with a smile and she will radiate
warmth towards you. So, remember when you're out on the prowl looking for romance,sex, or a
relationship, don't forget to tell women that there's something special
about them. Make them feel that they are the most important and special
person on the earth. If you can do this, you're love and sex life will
skyrocket! This article contributed by Don Diebel. If you would like more dating tips
on how to meet, attract, and seduce women please visit: http://www.getgirls.com
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"Women. They've got half the money in the world and all the pu$$y." IP: 12.23.142.187 |
Don Juan
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posted 11-20-2000 01:31 PM
I definately agree. All people r attracted to people who make them feel good about themselves. I just treat every1 well so I dont have to think about it------------------
International Millionaire Playboy Dude IP: 152.163.201.56 |
Don Juan
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posted 11-20-2000 07:30 PM
quote:
Originally posted by terminator911:
The most important thing you can do to make single women feel romantically
attracted to you is to make her feel special. Women are a lot less
interested in the way you appear to her than in the way to make her feel
about herself.
That's true. What she feels, is most important to her. quote:
It's very important to make single women feel special and unique. In
return, she will feel that you are also special and unique.
True again - when her interest in you is boiling. When it's that high, she'll project what she feels onto you. Bingo. quote:
So, how do you make a single woman feel special? You tell her by saying
something like this: "There's something very special about you. I noticed
you the second I first saw you. You have a very unique face that's so
exotic I can't explain it. You're more than just attractive. There's
something very unique and original about your look."Just say this to a woman you've just met and watch her reaction. I can
guarantee you her face will light up with a smile and she will radiate
warmth towards you.
If you say this to a woman you just met, she'll react that way on the outside, but on the inside she's going to be saying "Damn is he hungry for it or what?!?!? I know just how to handle this "Don Juannabe" guy; he's putty in my hands and he doesn't even know it" = no challenge. You've given her 5 compliments inside of 10 seconds - huge mistake; it makes you look hungry. And reacting to her physically on the first date (all compliments aiming towards looks???) makes you seem superficial/shallow and unable to control yourself. This tells her what is most important to you - looks, and there's no way you can defend this later after saying all that. It's the first date - telling her she's special so soon is a crime - punishment: you'll not get more than a few dates (if you even get to the second one at all..) and you'll be branded as an insecure phoney who relies on flattery to get somewhere with a girl because you have nothing else to offer. Oh, she'll eat up the cute compliments/flattery for about 5 minutes, but after that you'll be history, as well as a topic of laughter in the women's bathroom. By telling her all this on the first date, you are denying her what she responds to most: challenge. She shouldn't be knowing what you think about her on the first date; you take away the element of mystery that works SO well for you when you're not there with her. The rule of thumb is not to reveal anything about how you might feel. You have to make her wonder about what you think/feel or you will not raise her interest in you. This is self-control(not wooing over her looks every 5 minutes), challenge(making her work/wonder what you are about and not throwing yourself at her like every other guy), and confidence(not having to rely on flattery to get somewhere with her, trying to compensate because you have nothing else to offer). She'll respond to that a hell of a lot more than a few flatteries. quote:
So, remember when you're out on the prowl looking for romance,sex, or a
relationship, don't forget to tell women that there's something special
about them. Make them feel that they are the most important and special
person on the earth. If you can do this, you're love and sex life will skyrocket!
It certainly will a hundred-fold when you stop giving everything away at first, and make her work for it! How much more special would she feel, if she had to work to "get you? Much more special than when a guy throws lines at her on the first date, practically saying he adores her looks (which only really works on women with no self-esteem/confidence/etc.) Your words, shrouded in flattery, are whispers; your actions, shrouded in mystery, scream. ------------------
Definition Of Insanity: Doing what you've always done and expecting things to change. IP: 24.4.254.167 |
Master Don Juan
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posted 11-20-2000 10:39 PM
Armand
I agree with you, but remember... I didn't write this so I have to post it exactly as it was given to me.------------------
"Women. They've got half the money in the world and all the pu$$y." IP: 12.23.142.115 |
Don Juan
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posted 11-21-2000 01:04 AM
if you agree with Armand, then you're disagreeing with what you originally posted. why did you post it? its not going to help if you post something you dont agree with. if you disagree with some aspects of the article, then why didnt you state that? just admit you made a mistake by posting a bad article and learn from your mistake. only submit a good article next time.IP: 169.237.24.124 |
Master Don Juan
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posted 11-21-2000 04:39 PM
> "There's something very special about you...I can see women's eyes rolling already, since that quote has that standard-pickup-line sound to it. IP: 208.248.162.195 |
Master Don Juan
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posted 11-23-2000 07:37 PM
Lil' Pervert
I disagree with some of it... You don't have to use it if you don't like it.I'll be careful next time; I can't keep posting stuff that's not good enough to compete with such great articles as yours.
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"Women. They've got half the money in the world and all the pu$$y."
[This message has been edited by terminator911 (edited 11-23-2000).] IP: 12.23.142.231 |
Don Juan
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posted 11-24-2000 05:00 AM
"I'll be careful next time; I can't keep posting stuff that's not good enough to compete with such great articles as yours."[b]only [b]Hidden-Danjer and I can chuckle to ourselves...but maybe of few others as well...  so Terminator, I guess the best way to compete with you is to begin writing articles, or better yet, stealing articles about talking about yourself to impress women or giving out your phone number if she doesn't give you hers. i choose not to taint this forum with useless and worthless crap like you choose to do. thats my opinion of articles you post here from getgirls website. ------------------
"Porn is not a sin; it's a sinful pleasure." "Masturbation is the key......pleasure is the door." "If all else fails, declare yourself a born-again virgin." IP: 206.170.6.41 |
Master Don Juan
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posted 11-24-2000 05:24 AM
I agree with Armand and Lil Pervert on this one. That is, if us moderators can take sides. This was a waste of a post terminator, useless because it is based on the theory of placing women on a pedestal. It's never been a good ideal, NEVER!!! Show interest, but also show self control and that you have the ability to walk around with your emotions somewhere besides on your sleeve. Don Diebel from getgirls.com???? There are people in this forum who prove themeselves constantly as giving great advice, I'd listen to one of them before I'd start believing everthing I read everywhere on the internet. Why don't you send a couple of my hall of fame post over thier to getgirls.com?? I'm quite sure they will get a more favorable response in that forum as your pal don diebel got in this forum. Go ahead, look through the Hall of Fame terminator, you find some real wisdom thier.IP: 64.30.211.43 |
Master Don Juan
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posted 03-09-2001 03:29 AM
MAn,it's true that making someone special will skyrocket your success but unfortunately,the way or technique that was mentioned earlier is not good.How can you tell a woman that "There's something very special about you. I noticed
you the second I first saw you. You have a very unique face that's so
exotic I can't explain it. You're more than just attractive. There's
something very unique and original about your look." This is what I don't agree.I believe that we shouldn't give a woman too many compliments at the beginning.If you wish to give a compliment,make it little.Only once in a while after you've got to know them better.
For me,I will do it only maybe on your first date or later.
Otherwise,we will look like a desperate guy rather than a challenge.
Being a challenge is important but do you know how to be a challenge,terminator911?
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My techniques and skills are learnt through the difficult way.I used TMC(Tin Moon Chan) to succeed with women,and if i can do it,why not you!Trust your inner voice and have faith in yourself and success will shower you like rain!
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posted 03-09-2001 09:06 PM
I thought that if you treated a woman really special... you'll make her feel "MORE" special and that she deserves better, she'll dump you, or won't go out with you at all. At least that's what I experienced. But don't be an a$$hole eather.
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Thanks.
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Master Don Juan
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posted 03-09-2001 10:30 PM
doesnt this take away from being a jerk??IP: 152.163.197.49 |
Master Don Juan
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posted 03-09-2001 11:51 PM
I tend to agree with the others also. Making a women feel special is the perfect thing to do, but the method is lacking. What you want to do is make her feel that you think she is special and beutifull, and are satisfied with her. You don't know or care what others think. Don't do this in a lustfull way. IP: 208.61.84.193 |
Don Juan
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posted 08-07-2002 09:31 PM
Here's a technique that is relevant to this topic...HIT AND RUN.The first part of a hit and run is, obviously, the hit. This is when you approach the girl and conversate with her. DURING THIS TIME you should make her feel special. Do this by talking about her and giving her attention, dont grovel at her feet like most AFCs do. The most important part of this tactic, when things are going well, is RUN. Take off. Go do something else. This will leave her both enjoying your attention and thinking that you are a challenge. IP: 66.31.196.228 |
Master Don Juan
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posted 08-11-2002 03:14 AM
Yes! Man, I am laughing my as* off about these guys who, a year ago, failed to see the WHOLE essence of making a woman feel special and just concentrated on destroying the exact specific thing T posted.I gotta say, whenever people start talking about "rules" and "pedestals" and start throwing the "DJ" word around, my BS sensors go off. Guys who know what they're talking about are almost invariably BEYOND these simplistic terms. IP: 216.144.168.189 |
Don Juan
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posted 08-28-2002 09:57 PM
Yo after reading this post, i'll give you guys a little story of what happened to me. Ok theres this girl that came to my school last year. We don't know each other at all, and at a party when i was with a buddy that knew her, we were standing around with about ten or so people - her friends and a couple of my friends. She had an interesting hat on, and I commented on it. I said "that is a cool hat! It looks fuzzy. Can I feel it?" so she let me feel it while it was on her head, everyone else was silent, and then I was like "whoa! Nice! I gotta get me one of those!" and smiled at her...then the conversation continued with everyone, and I said "well i gotta go i see someone i wanted to talk to. check you guys later." She has talked to me several times after this at different times of the year even though we don't know each other, given me tons of eye contact and even acts kind of nervous around me now. Compliments do work, but I found that complimenting not her, but her tastes in something about what she was wearing and making her the center of attention around a bunch of people worked very well. I bet I could ask this girl out at any time and she would jump at the chance now...who knows maybe I will. Its kinda tough dating chicks when you lost your licence and live in the country though. =)Steve IP: 161.184.23.49 |
Don Juan
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posted 08-28-2002 11:37 PM
Im guessing the whole point of Big T's post was to pretty much compliment her on a "light" level. Its nothing heavy, and its nothing like an afc would probably say.... Hell...Id try to make fun of her a little right after I complimented her. REMEMBER just keep it light and easy. Shell feel special anyway... ------------------
The former Man Of Adventure has spoken. Take care Fellow DJ's...until next time. IP: 63.175.217.233 |
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