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Robert Jordon

Master Don Juan
posted 08-13-2000 05:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Robert Jordon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What is fear besides a 4 letter word? Fear is that voice which tells you what you should and shouldn't do. It's the voice that tells you to avoid talking to that hot chick or to run away from problems in your life.

The way I see it, fear is like a bully that tries to intimidate you. The more you listen to it and become a slave to it. The harder and stronger it comes onto you. But if you'll stand up to it, it dissappears. Because it knows it has no power over you.

It has been said by many wise men over the years that fear is like an evil energy, which penetrates everyone who will allow it to! Picture yourself as a house, and all these enemies are trying to get in through your front door. If you stand up to them and tell them to get lost and lock the door. They leave. BUt if you leave the door wide open, in they come! They will hunt you and destroy your dreams!

The next time fear trys to stop you from walking over and talking to that girl accross the room. Say to yourself mentally "back off! I'm not listen to this crap!" and walk right through the fear! You will notice that the fear will grab you (psychologically) and hold you back! This is when you need to be really strong and pull forward and do what feel is in your best interests!


Rob


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Dee-Zy

Master Don Juan
posted 08-13-2000 11:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dee-Zy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
WOW!!! GRRRRrrrrrrrrrrrEAT POST!!!
Id give mo then 2 thumbs up but I can't

I feel like going to tha mall again Tday...
It's too late now though

I really like tha metaphoer with tha house
but ESPECIALLY tha bully!!!
Good Work!!!

Peace Out
DZ

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Godfather

Don Juan
posted 05-18-2002 03:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Godfather     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
yea your right! you got me all pumped up thanks dude

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bob2007

Master Don Juan
posted 05-18-2002 11:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for bob2007     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
thanks for great tip!

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crazykid

Master Don Juan
posted 05-19-2002 08:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for crazykid     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Robert Jordon:
What is fear besides a 4 letter word?
Rob


I dont know if you got that from the Hardy Boys, but heres another thing from them that could help. Live for the moment.

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LiLPrOdiGY69

Don Juan
posted 05-19-2002 08:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LiLPrOdiGY69     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
GoOd $h*T RoB

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007

Master Don Juan
posted 05-25-2002 12:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for 007     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Damn Good Post !!


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Jungle Boy

Don Juan
posted 06-21-2002 11:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jungle Boy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
FEAR

Forgetting that
Everything is
All
Right!!!

Don Juans - remember that you are the great catch. Be confident...and go after what you want.

Great post Rob!

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Page

Master Don Juan
posted 06-28-2002 12:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Page     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
True.... to eliminate fear from the equation, you must simply deny it a foothold in your life.

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Romeous Maximus

Don Juan
posted 09-11-2002 12:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Romeous Maximus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I believe fear is like a shadow, a phantom in our minds that ceases to exist when we recognize that it is nothing tangible, and cannot harm us. This is when it no longer has hold over us.

The question is, we all may have had ghosts in our minds when we were children.. (what, your older brothers never threw giblets at you in your sleep and then said it was the boogeyman?) but eventually we realized these fears were only in our minds...

Is it not the same with women?

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Dr LuvSex

Don Juan
posted 09-11-2002 10:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dr LuvSex     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Great tip; a real confidence booster.

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