Getting Women to Obsess Over You
I always found it interesting, as well as frustrating, that I have so much trouble getting the women I want, but have no trouble driving the women I don't want absolutely crazy over me. I'm sure this same thing has baffled many of you.
I wanted to figure out why these women, whom I had no interest in, were so obsessed with me, so I then could try and apply these same principles to women that I did want. Therefore, I analyzed the past five women who were "obsessed" with me, and what I did to generate these feelings in them.
Here's what I found:
1) I rejected them.
I showed that I wasn't interested. This showed a lot of CONFIDENCE. It made it seem like I had tons of girls to select from, and could pick and choose who I wanted to date. It also showed that I wasn't desperate or needy for a woman.
2) I was a jerk.
I didn't call back, ignored them, hit on other women right in front of them, etc. This showed that I was SECURE and didn't need them. I could do and say whatever I wanted around them. I didn't care if they got angry and walked away.
3) I occasionally gave them hope.
I'd call back, flirt or kiss them on the cheek (usually when I was drunk). Immediately after (when was sober), I returned to being a jerk. This made it seem like I was "weakening" a little and was just out of their reach. They became obsessed with "grabbing" me once and for all.
4) I remained uninterested.
This drove them crazy. They said to themselves, "Why doesn't he want me? He must be a really CONFIDENT and INDEPENDENT guy if he's turning down dates. He must have girls all over him. He must really be SPECIAL. I have to have him!!!"
The lesson here guys, is to take these principles and apply them to women that you want to seduce. You may have to be a little creative with them, or use them sparingly, but use them.
"Forget" to return a call, keep her guessing, and make sure she knows that you'll walk away at the drop of a hat. Remember that women love a challenge, and are extremely attracted to guys that don't need them.
Good luck Don Juaners!
Scotty The Oz
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