Nice Guys and Jerks

Always a popular topic — and everyone seems to have an opinion on it.

Most guys, according to the poll at our site, believe that women prefer jerks over nice guys. And that the only way to truly become a Don Juan with women is to turn into some type of jerk (or at least exhibit some jerk-like tendencies every once in a while).

Most women will also admit, if they're being honest, that there's something about jerks that intrigues them. And they can usually recall a number of past experiences where they were being hotly pursued by a "really nice guy" but, for whatever reason, were just not attracted to him. And it usually didn't have anything to do with his looks. (Often nice guys are very good looking, but still unsuccessful with women.)

Well, we're going to get to the bottom of this...

I recently directed this perplexing question to the readers of The Don Juan Newsletter and asked for their feedback about what they think might be going on.  This is what they have to say.

What the Men Had to Say About Nice Guys and Jerks

What the Women Had to Say About Nice Guys and Jerks

If you would like to voice your opinion on the nice guys and jerks issue feel free to email me with your thoughts.